Wednesday, January 19, 2011

its real f-up that the hoemoes need to go march

So, there is a gay pride parade planned for the first time in 15 years in Winston-Salem, NC. The article is below. But first, the comments found after this article. This is a particularly choice comment:

Posted by abieanna on Jan. 19, 2011 - 4:30 p.m.

its real f-up that the hoemoes need to go march.what are they getting done.wasting tax payers money so the cops can protect you.i will help pay to send you and your lovers to iran.now thats using tax payers money for good.

The issue here for me is the poor spelling and punctuation. Grammar is not the only issue. I think the author intends:

It's real fowled-up that the homos need to go march. What are they getting done? They are wasting tax payer's money when they hire cops to protect them. I will help pay to send them and their lovers to Iran. Now that's using tax payer's money for good.

Second, there is an inherent ignorance to cause and effect here. If gays didn't need protection from the cops (protection from bigoted people like our obtuse author here), tax payer money would not be spent to pay for said cops.

And yes, thank you joining in our victory celebration for the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell. Now my love and I can serve openly in the military. However, and I am admittedly not an expert, I don't believe we have active engagement in Iran right now.

By your last statement, "thats using tax payers money for good," are you talking about the money of the tax payers? Because that would require an apostrophe to indicate ownership. Second, if you are implying (and I am inferring) that you mean that sending people (to Iran) is a good use of tax payer money because they will die there, please note that there are thousands of men and woman from the United States who have died in the armed services so that you could spout off hateful rhetoric with atrocious spelling and absent reasoning.

And yet, when I read your posts...And it could be any of the hateful posts of the 67 comments so far...I find my blood pressure rising! What world of solitary ignorance do you live in? What benefit do you get from spouting such hate?

I welcome your response, at your leisure. Just use spell check first.

Pride parade planned


Pride parade planned

Credit: Journal File Photo

Winston-Salem's first "gay pride" parade, on Fourth St. downtown, June 9, 1996. Plans are afoot for another parade on Oct.15, 2011.

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Gay-rights advocates have announced plans for a Pride parade in downtown Winston-Salem on Oct. 15 — the first local parade in 15 years to celebrate the rights of gays and other minorities.

"There are so many great gay people in our community," said Steve McGinnis, a co-founder ofEquality Winston-Salem, the group sponsoring the parade. "We felt like the gay community in Winston-Salem is not visible enough."

The event will not be a march or a protest, but a celebratory parade, he said.

"People should recognize we are here, we are active, and we do make a difference in our community," saidMcGinnis, a retired principal in the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County school system.

The previous gay-rights parade in Winston-Salem was in 1996. Several thousand people packed the downtown streets, and protesters showed up, too.

Ron Baity, pastor of Berean Baptist Church andpresident of Return America, a conservative Christian advocacy group, said he and his group will sponsor a "traditional family values" parade a few weeks after the Pride parade — just as they did after the 1996 Gay Pride parade.

"Our textbook is the Bible, and we believe the Bible speaks plainly as to what constitutes a family," Baitysaid. "God's definition of a family is one man and one woman."

The gay organizations have their First Amendment right to have their parade, but "we will have an outpouring of people in our own parade, on another day," Baity said.

Leaders with Equality Winston-Salem said the time is right to hold a Pride parade. They pointed to several recent advances in gay rights, such as the end of "don't ask, don't tell" policies for the military, anti-bullying laws adopted by the state legislature and a local YMCA allowing two partnered gay men and their adopted children to join under the "family" designation.

They also talked about some recent statements by state Rep. Larry Brown, R-Forsyth, that galvanized the gay community. Brown recently said the government should not spend money to treat adults with HIV or AIDS who live in "perverted lifestyles." In October, Brown drew criticism for an e-mail he sent to other Republican state legislators in which he used disparaging language about gays.

After lawmakers were told about a legislative leadership award being given to then-House Speaker Joe Hackney, Brown sent an e-mail to House Minority Leader Paul Stam saying: "I hope all the queers are thrilled to see him. I am sure there will be a couple legislative fruitloops there in the audience."

Brown did not respond to several calls and an e-mail Tuesday.

"When you have an elected official in power making those kinds of bigoted statements, it does serve to engage the (gay) community and make them think about what they can do to change the climate," said Ian Palmquist, executive director of Equality North Carolina. "I think he (Brown) is out of touch with the vast majority of North Carolinians and even the vast majority of Republicans."

If any protesters show up on Oct. 15, "it won't ruffle my feathers, and it won't make me angry," McGinnissaid. "There are people out there who have a very big problem with it (homosexuality). Do I have a big problem with them? No, I don't."

Mary Jamis, another co-founder of Equality Winston-Salem, said the leaders are open to a parade with a "broader diversity" theme than just for gay rights.

"The parade could be for any minority or any community that feels they don't have a voice," Jamis said, adding that Equality Winston-Salem will coordinate the parade with LGBT (lesbian, gays, bisexual and transgender) groups and PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) groups.

Organizers are working on bringing nationally known entertainment to the event.

"We think the event in Winston-Salem will be very affirming, with people from all walks of life participating," said Rex Welton, another co-founder of Equality Winston-Salem. "Winston-Salem is the city of the arts and innovation, and there are a lot of creative and open-minded people in this town. We're going to make sure it is classy and fun."


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FLORIDA MAN AT CENTER OF ADOPTION BAN CASE OFFICIALLY ADOPTS SONS

Martin Gill and his sons are finally a family in the eyes of the law:

Gill"After a successful fight to overturn Florida’s ban on gay people serving as adoptive parents, the two young brothers adopted by Martin Gill participated in an adoption ceremony in Judge Cindy Lederman's chambers in Miami-Dade County Juvenile Court today, marking the final step in their adoption process. Gill and his partner had served as foster parents to the two brothers for six years. Gill worked with the American Civil Liberties Union to fight for the right to adopt them by challenging Florida’s 33-year-old ban on gay people adopting. As a result of the ACLU lawsuit on behalf of Gill, the ban was ended last year."

Said Leslie Cooper, staff attorney with the ACLU Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Project: “Martin and his family were instrumental in ending one of the most discriminatory laws in the country. Hopefully now, thousands of children in Florida who are waiting to be adopted will be able to know the love and support of having a family.”

It's Better When The Majority Is In Charge!

This is a fantastic example of poor soul who is speaking out, but has absolutely no understanding of the basics of our government.


Tuesday, January 18, 2011

I'm Born This Way!

Have you seen my post on Born This Way?

Brad

Brad, age 5
Norwell, MA (1984)
I don't have any recollection of this photo being taken, but I had that tapestry up until a few years ago when it got lost in a move. I loved it! My Mom used to say I was always a happy child.

I sucked my thumb until I was 9. I loved playing with dolls.
I think I mortified my Grandmother when she took me shopping for my 4th or 5th birthday and I insisted that I had to have a Cabbage Patch doll. But I loved it.
I loved playing dress up, baking, cleaning, and making crafts.
My Mom had a "cleaning lady" come to the house and I always followed her around with a mop or a duster. I loved cleaning! My older sisters were into dirt bikes and wrestling. I never understood their interest.
What is funny to me is that I never felt "different" exactly. I was different, but I didn't feel it. When I began to have sexual feelings at about 11 or 12, it seemed utterly natural to me to be attracted to other boys.

Years later it turns out one sister is gay - and the other is closeted? I wish I could find the video of me playing Ms. Conchita in a home cooking show called Conchita's Kitchen. A wig, a dress, make up, and double fudge brownies.
My parents never tried to sway us from our interests and I think for that reason we were blessed.

Another teenager lost....


Teenager Commits Suicide; Friends Say Bullying to Blame

The news of a high school student's suicide began circling social networking sites Monday morning, after the news began spreading that 18-year-old Jefferson High School student Lance Lundsten had died over the weekend.

Around 10 p.m. Saturday the Douglas County Sheriff's Office responded to an emergency call at the Lundsten's residence in Miltona.

When officers arrived, they discovered 18-year-old Lance Lundsten needing emergency medical care. Lundsten was transported to the Douglas County Hospital where he later died.

The Sheriff's Office confirmed to KSAX that they believed Lundsten's death was a suicide. The Sheriff would not confirm the nature of the medical emergency.

According to his Facebook page, Lundsten was openly gay. On a Facebook memorial page in Lundsten's honor, friends said that Lundsten had been bullied at school for his sexual orientation. Some students who knew Lundsten believed the bullying may have led to his suicide. Full story here!

Sarah Palin, Hallelujah!

We truly are a diverse and talented people....


Kids of gays more likely to eat biscuits than bagels

More data showing that parenting by LGBT people is a reality. We must act based on this reality rather than attempt to force a reality on the world that will never be, nor has ever been.

But that would be too simple for all the hateful organizations that insist that the world must conform to their distorted homogeneous reality.

From Good As You

Conventional wisdom flips toward the south:

JACKSONVILLE, Fla. — Being gay in this Southern city was once a lonely existence. Most people kept their sexuality to themselves, and they were reminded of the dangers of being openly gay when a gay church was bombed in the 1980s. These days, there are eight churches that openly welcome gay worshipers. One even caters to couples with children.

The changes may seem surprising for a city where churches that have long condemned homosexuality remain a powerful force. But as demographers sift through recent data releases from the Census Bureau, they have found that Jacksonville is home to one of the biggest populations of gay parents in the country.

In addition, the data show, child rearing among same-sex couples is more common in the South than in any other region of the country, according to Gary Gates, a demographer at the University of California, Los Angeles. Gay couples in Southern states like Arkansas, Louisiana, Mississippi and Texas are more likely to be raising children than their counterparts on the West Coast, in New York and in New England.
KEEP READING:
Parenting by Gays More Common in the South, Census Shows [NY Times]